Chances are choices or just another alternative??

What are choices? Choices are chances or just another alternatives.... sometimes, the more choices we had, the more we cant decide what to choose.... when we had no other choices, maybe just only one choice, then we had to just accept it whether is good or bad. As adults, sometimes we do also regretted the choice that we made especially when we do have other choices or chances....

Choices sometimes might just lead to another chance to reborn. Since we are young, what choices do we had? Can we choose who is going to be our parents or siblings? Since young when we are just still dont know what is good & bad, we dont have a single chances to choose.... only when we are much more older, when we know how to differentiate good & bad, we are then given chances of choices to choose.... for what school to enrol, we might have some choices or might not too... only when before when we go into secondary school, maybe some children do have chances of choices... I know some parents dont even give their children a chance to choose what they want in life, the children only had to listen & follow them according without fail... Is this a good sign for the parents to choose for their kids??? Frankly speaking, if we put ourselves in the parent's shoes, we will know what actually what the parents wants the best for their kids so that their kids will had the best of the best for them to grow & nurture in the best way...

But for some children or kids, they dont like being control by their parents to do things, the more their parents likes to control them, the more they will goes against their wish. Just like how i treat my nephews, I will gives them choices when needed, but i will tell them why i ask them to choose a certain options instead of the choice that they want.... cause teenagers are not so easy to ask them just to follow what the adults wants them to do. We as a adult, must also put ourselves in their shoes cos teenagers loves to have the company of their friends when they go into a school or any activities... Sometimes we had to listen to their thoughts as friends instead of an elder person to them. Sometimes i will msn with them to communicate with them, asking them how is the study, friends or their activites they are doing now... any problem especially when they dont feels like telling their parents. We do had our secrets which their parents dont know anything about it... will tell them what is my views. share with them why i had that thinking... they will also tell me why their thinking too... Teenagers are not so easy also, they have pressure from their teachers, parents or even schoolmates especially when their results are not what they had expected... They do had their own individual's thinking.... LIFE is not a easy path for us to follow...

Chances are choices or just another alternatives????